From straight to bi

Don’t you ever think that straight is always straight, bisexual is always bisexual? Sometimes things are not as we want. It may go in a different direction. In sexuality, it is possible for someone to go from straight to bi curious, then become a bisexual. Or to the opposite of.summer_flings

Dave is good boy. He didn’t know what is straight or bisexual when he was younger. Until 16 years old, he had a sex with a boy he found that he is a gay. But the story was not end. When Dave 22 years old, he had a dating with a girl and fall in love with the girl, of course they has sex. Until that time, Dave found he want to have sex with man and woman. Needless to say, he only put the idea in his heart. Dave didn’t come out.

Several years later, Dave married with a woman named Amy. He is very happy with his wife. After few years, they had a son and daughter. As children grew up, Dave increasingly want to come out. He told Amy he is a bisexual, but he still and will always love her deeply. At the beginning Amy can’t accept the fact. After a while Amy began to understand her husband. And she supported Dave come out. When they was about 40 years old. Amy smiling-couple-under-the-blanket-in-the-bed_1098-278support her husband to look for a boyfriend. Dave so happy with this. He met a man on a dating site. Both them are bisexual. And they live in the same city. They started to have dating with each other offline. Finally, they become sexual partners.

You can’t imagine what happened in the last. Due to Dave, Amy become a bi-curious, and more and more like the experience. Finally, she become totally bisexual. Amy and Dave has common boyfriend and girlfriend. Both boy and girl are their sexual partner. And all of them fell happy and perfect.tumblr_static_tumblr_static_14z8uh139zz4c0k0c84gcccc8_640

Maybe we think that they are crazy. But such a thing dose exist, and goes on. We can say, because of love, Dave become straight several decades. Also because of love, Amy become bisexual.

Love is a strong power, it can change everything.

How about a bisexual’s daily life?

Everyone has their own life, Dan too. He is bisexual, there is nobody know about this. This is a secret only belong to himself.

Dan is a staff in a big company. He will go to work from 9:00 am to 5:00 pm every weekday. He is mainly engaged in website promotion. He was very fond of the job. There are two reasons: first, the job offers a substantial income to maintain his life; second, his promotion of website is a bisexual dating site. You know, Dan is a bisexual, and didn’t come out. But because of the job, he feel good, never lonely.diamond-lighthouse-selling-man-smart-glasses-chilling

In the morning, he will choose a suitable tie for his clothes. A piece of bread, a glass of milk, and an egg. This is his nutritious breakfast every day. Dan love fine life. Then he drive to work, he will arrive at the company before nine.

At lunch time, there is an hour to have lunch and have a rest. He will take 20 minutes for lunch and 40 minutes in the lounge. Then continue his work.

After work, He will go to the supermarket to buy ingredients to cook for himself at home every evening. He enjoy the fun of cooking. After dinner, he will have a rest a half of hour by rending book or watching TV, then he will go running. He is very concerned his health.

Dan is most looking forward to the weekend. He can do anything he wanted to do. For example, going on a picnic, camping, barbecue, surf, of course, all of these are with friends. Occasionally, he will take the time to go back to see Mom and Dad. He likes to stay with them, even if doing nothing.fallacies-mind-032

Dan’s life simple and fulfilling. If the beginning I did not tell you he was a bisexual, whether you are willing to make friends with him? Maybe you will say “Yes”, but in your last words you may add a “but”. In fact we know, there is no different with Dan and normal people, except for sexuality is not the same.

I don’t know why we can’t accept a person who is positive? Yes! He is bisexual. And so what?

Whether love too low, won’t get happiness—bisexual

Hi, bisexuals and bi curious, if someone love you, what you will do for him? If you love someone, what you will do for him? Role in love is exact opposite in cases.

If someone love you, what you will do for him? Let me use my friend Lucy as an example. 15-things-every-bi-racial-couple-should-know-mainphotoShe went through two completely different feelings. She had a boyfriend at four years ago, named Bob. Bob loved Lucy more than Lucy loved Bob. In the relationship, Bob loved too low, so Lucy did not care about the feeling of Bob. Bob always sad and tired. At last, Bob can’t stand the feeling of ignoring by Lucy. He and Lucy broke up. Only to lose to know how to cherish. Lucy found that she ignored the feeling of Bob, she made a serious mistake. She was so sad.

If you love someone, what you will do for him? After that, Lucy meet another boy named Jon. Jon fell in love with Lucy. Gradually Lucy loved Jon too. Lucy wants to change the situation like last feeling, so she try her best to love Jon. During the beginning of that time they love each other very much. The love they give each other is equal. As friend, I’m so happy with them. But did not last long. Lucy gave too much love to Jon. Jon became more and more violent temper. In the relationship, Lucy loved too low. Even now they still together with each other, but Lucy dose not happy.

Whether love is too low, won’t get happiness. The sentence for everyone in love, including bisexuals’ love. Compared straights with bisexuals, bisexuals need to be loved more. And they are normal person, we should be equal to bisexual and bi curious people.

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Whether you are gay/lesbian or bisexual, please remember these words: Whether love is too low, won’t get happiness. I don’t want you to be hurt who is reading my article. At the same time, I also do not want you to hurt someone who is loving you.

Everyone should have a happy life!

Give me a reason to let bisexual happy

Some bisexuals always troubled because of their own sexual orientation. Today my task is to help you break up your trouble. Don’t worry about it baby.20140416113320-876428519

At first, we should correct view of our sexuality. Yeah, we are different from others on sexuality. And so what! It’s just a habit. Like someone don’t have sex with anyone. It’s the same meaning. Everyone has the right with different needs. So just calm down. Don’t worry about your sexuality is different from most people’s, still has many friends like us, right?

Then, never tell yourself you’re alone. In the USA, the population of bisexual about 23.9 million. This is not a small sum. At the same time, this is only USA data, as well as the all over the world do? Every country has bisexuals. As a bisexual, do you still think you were alone? You have many bisexual people, you just don’t find them. And maybe they are not come out around you. If you open the windows of your heart, you will make many friends the same as yourself. Remember! You never alone!

At last, we should think about something why people look bisexuals with colored glasses. Think about it carefully! in the past a very long period of time, most people contact is heterosexual. Then gay/lesbian appear gradually. Until recently appeared bisexual. 1542-1305301a41w11Different sexuality orientation continue to break people’s value and vision, so people will not accepted. So now people can’t accept bisexual is a normal performance, time will change all that. As long as we do our own good. And the next question is come out. How can we do our own good?

In my opinion, many people think bisexual who both like boys and girls is awful. They can’t accept their partner is a bisexual. Because of they can’t imagine their partner have sex with themselves and another with same sex. So if you love a girl or boy, you should be loyal to your partner, do not love others and have sex with other person. Keep it in your mind!

Which bisexual dating site is better?

There are many dating sites on Internet. People need dating sites to meet new people. Because there are not many real friends around us in real life. Especially bisexuals, they more need bisexual dating sites than normal person.dating_your_best_friends_ex

Some are free dating sites, some are paid dating sites. I always ask others which one you will choose? Everyone has their own hobbies. Today I still want to talk about this topic. Every coin has two sides, so I will talk about it both advantage and disadvantage.

Advantages and disadvantages of free dating site

Advantages: ① because of free, everybody who are using cell phones and computers can register on the site. These sites will have many members. So you can find someone you like. And you will be chosen by others.② the biggest advantage is that you will not spend a penny in finding lovers on the dating site.

Disadvantages: ① everybody can register on the site, including bad person. ② Your profile will be visible to every member. It’s possible a little dangerous.

Advantages and disadvantages of paid dating site

Advantages: ① Guaranteed. Avoid disclosure your information, only subscribers can see your information, so paid some money on a dating site, just like buying an insurance policy, dating will be safer. ② Limit some people. If a person didn’t want to make true friends, he will don’t pay money on the site for someone. ③ Members will make the high quality of friends. ④ Stand in the perspective of the website, the fee paid by user can be used to construct the site better. So as to provide a more comfortable and safe dating environment.

Disadvantages: Of course, there are also something not very well. Members lose money. But, there is no such thing as free lunch. Money or the quality of your friends, you have to choose one.  dating_quote_3

 Yeah, repeat the words, every coin has two sides. When you decide to join in a dating site or other different sites, please think twice before you do. You must be responsible for what you do.

Good luck!

The interesting thing about online dating

Everyone has online dating experience it! And me, too. It reminds me of a very classic sentence: “Life like a box of chocolates, you never know what you going to get.” And dating on the website is also a bit like the feeling, you never know what you going to meet.  20029d52dffd1137d6af9dbb24fd9882

In the last online date, we have made a lot of people. In this article, I understand online dating include on Facebook, Datingbi, and so on. Every website which you can make friends with.

I will share some interesting things about online dating. I’m interested in bisexual, so I make many friends who is bisexual or bi curious on Facebook. So I always talk to them about everything which is bisexuality.

Once time, an old bisexual man tell me about his life with bisexuality. He come out he is a bisexual when he was young. It’s interested in that his wife were from straight become bisexual, and she is indulged in bisexual sex. And they have common girlfriend and boyfriend in relationship. Because of the man is bisexual, so his wife, son and daughter also are bisexual. He affected his entire family sexual orientation. It’s a crazy and exciting family. And his lifestyle shocked me.online-dating-profile-examples-for-men-boring

And there is another case, also a bisexual man, only difference is that he is a single. Why he is single? Because he don’t know which soul mate he should find. So he decided to have try something to help himself love girls or boys. Wow, I have to say, it’s a really crazy idea. How is he to implement it? Every night he went to a bar and bring a guy or two color ladies to his home. And… (I believe that you can imagine). Good times do not last long. After several days, he was tired with no answer. He is enjoy staying with both girls and boys. As I understand it, he is still having a rest at now.

If you had some interesting things about online dating, please comment me. I will share to everyone with anonymous.